Commitment is a choice — you do not have to wait to be chosen.
You know the feeling of desperately trying to figure out whether the person you’re dating wants to truly commit to you? You know all the tricks and hints you’ve used to try and figure out how much you mean to them? 🤯
Oh babe, I got you. I know. I have done most of those hooks and it never got me close to what I wanted.
There is an unfortunate phenomenon that women in particular are taught — you have to wait to be chosen. This sends you crazy because you think you don’t have any power or choice in you present reality.
You obsess, pick fights, go cold and withhold your love, compare yourself to other women, provoke him and analyse his reaction. “If he really cared about me he would tell me he loved me, or stopped being friends with other women, or tell me I am the one.” Am I right sisters? 🤭
Energetically this feels like shit for both you and him.
The truth is that you are probably waiting for him to do something before YOU commit.
What if commitment was a choice? A daily choice. What if “the one” was the “one right now” always and commitment wasn’t measured in a status symbol or “I want you to be mine forever”? After transforming my relationship to men I have a particular flavour of mastery that I like to share with other women.
I support you to drop the crazy obsession and story that you’re not enough. I mentor you through unleashing your true desire in any moment, giving you the power of CHOICE in your relationships to men.
I have seen again and again how a woman who truly backs her own choice is irresistible to men.
Are you ready to work on this? Book in for a Desire Consultations to see my new coaching offerings for women.